Advice

Hi and assalammualaikum.

You know what? I love to listen to other people's perspective & their own opinions. Whenever I listen to them either intentionally or vice versa, they are lowkey making me to think openly about their thoughts.
Nevertheless, it doesn't mean what they said is true or not, funny or not, good or not, whatever it is, it just their opinions, and on how they delivered the messages. 

This morning, my teacher was absent on the class. We got like 3 free periods w/o a teacher. So like usual, we just doing our things. Finishing homeworkSSSSS, chit-chat and else. At first, I was doing physic's homework. But suddenly I heard a small argue-talk between my classmates, which was like 4 to 5 steps from my tablework. It was not that fuss or wild though. Just a conversation where this friend, A was giving a piece of advice to the other friend, H. Oh, it was man-to-man talks anyway. It high-key attracted me honestly. However, I don't want to join the conversation though because I know they will stop right away. So my hand was doing the homework, but my brain cell listened to the conversation LOL

Look, I don't want to write here what they talked about, but I gotta share some of my thoughts about A's advice. I sit back right now, thinking deeply about his advice. Okay, it is a great thing for sure. Menasihati antara satu sama lain is a great thing, isn't? Tuntutan agama.

But now, I thought & realized that there are actually some people who love to brag about their bad past or experience with other people. I mean, I get it that one wants to share their sorta painful experience so that others can learn about the mistakes and take it as a nonsuch ( teladan ) However, the way A delivered his advice was somehow annoyed me a little bit. Like littleeeeeeeeeee bit. No offense. I understand his good intention though, but yea. 

It sounds like when one thinks that his or her test from Allah is greater and hurtful rather than anyone else and thus makes s/he feels proud and brag with it all the times. When the thing is, there are actually more people who are suffering more than they realize. Or maybe even the one who are they giving advice with. Who knows? Maybe there are those ones who battling out with themselves right...

But I guess, I should just take it positively. I'm not writing this whole post for my classmate though. It just one of my thoughts about the thing that cropped up today. 

I'm giving this message to those who need anyway! I believe sometimes we feel terasa hati a little bit from teguran, but it is actually a good thing that someone willing to give an advice to us. Take it as a bonus to us, Inshaallah!